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I have plenty of negative beliefs I am looking to shift at the moment but, one that feels large is my beliefs around money and calling myself, "broke." It makes me feel better to make jokes about not having enough money but in reality, I know it creates more negative pathways around scarcity in my mind. I think telling myself, "I am growing my wealth" can help but also expressing compassion like, "I am learning how to make money doing what I love. That is the dream and we are going for it." I also want to shift this mindset that I have a lot of things in my life I need to work on because in reality, there is a lot going right in my life too! I have beautiful friends, I live in a beautiful place, I have healthy parents. My life is abundant!

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Thankyou for sharing this Christina 🫶🏽 it’s definitely reframing it and choosing words that are more optimistic! Amazing that you are aware of this. You got this 🌍 ✨

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I wholeheartedly agree with this Emily!! My life changed when I began choosing my words more carefully. It’s uncomfortable at first, I don’t know if it’s being English but I hated saying good things about myself so I started by saying compliments about myself as if it were a joke but now I fully believe them and it changes everything. Thank you for sharing this!! ✨

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Aw Thankyou Ella…. Same for me my life has changed as a result! I do think it is a British thing, people get uncomfortable with it! Keep believing these compliments please 🫶🏽

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Emily… I’ve learned in the past (the hard way) that poorly thought of words expressed to or at someone can cause longer lasting damage than physical actions towards them. It is indeed wise to choose your words carefully because you never know how they’ll affect someone 👍😄

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