Choose your words wisely

One of the most powerful manifesting habits plus a bonus tip!

I want to share not only a manifesting practice but also a simple mindset shift that anyone can start. It all lies in the power of the words we speak. Stick around for the bonus tip.

I believe that the energy we put out into the world is what we attract back. In this context, that energy comes from the words we choose to speak and the narratives we tell ourselves.

What do I mean by this?

Let me give you an example…

Have you ever met someone who always seems to have continuous drama in their life? Negative situations follow them like a bad smell. We can manifest what we speak, meaning that if you keep focusing on drama and feeding into it, you’ll attract more of it. Phrases like ‘My life is complete chaos’ or ‘Drama always follows me!’ serve as signals to the universe to bring you more of the same.

When we want to manifest something in our life we have to be mindful of our words internally and what we speak out loud. Some might say it’s easier to reign in your spoken dialogue but it’s just as important to take care of the story you are telling yourself inside (very bloody important).

This takes practice, absolutely. I try my best to be conscious of the words I speak. Of course, there will be slip ups and self doubt creeps in, maybe you’ve been around a negative person, or you’re just having a bad day. After all, we’re simply trying to rewire our internal hard drive! Nothing major.

Take money, for example. If you have a negative relationship with it, if you believe there’s a lack of it or that you could never achieve abundance, the universe picks up on this energy and it keeps you feeling stuck!

It’s not about skipping around chanting ‘I’m rich’ like some gangster, waiting for 4 mil to magically drop into your account. It’s about having a strong belief that certain things you want in life can absolutely happen for you. I love love love saying to people when they are sharing their dreams, ‘There’s s no reason why that can’t happen for you.’ I recommend you saying this—it’s a little boost of encouragement that we all need from time to time!

Card from my Manifest deck. I deserve to feel good. I adore the simplicity of this affirmation , for some reason we forget just that sometimes.

You may not have whatever you desire yet but you have a deep knowing it can happen for you.

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Bonus manifesting tip: Want for others more than for yourself.

When you want the best for others, you foster deeper connections and find such greater fulfilment in uplifting people rather than focusing solely on personal gain. This philosophy is at the core of many spiritual teachers, including my absolute favourite, Dr. Wayne Dyer. I’ll leave a link to his podcast below. I listen to his podcast most days, he’s lifted me up during some dark moments, and I really admire his compassion towards callers seeking advice. I’d highly recommend it if you’re looking for more guidance on living a more abundant life and understanding the power of our mind.

Podcast

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Question: What’s a negative belief about yourself that you’ve worked to change, and what steps did you take to shift your perspective?

Big Loves

Em